When it comes to matters of the heart, it’s often a bumpy ride.
Most people in the world would say that ‘finding love’ is on their ultimate to-do list, but unfortunately it is very rarely an easy thing to conquer.
Despite each and every one of us being individuals with independent thoughts and feelings, the universe works in such a mysterious way that patterns often form in our lives that link us to our fellow humans.
And love is no different. Throughout our whole lives, there will three different types of people that you fall in love with, and all of them happen at a certain time for a certain reason.
The first person you fall in love with will be during the folly of your youth.
Growing up and seeing love stories played out in films and on television, or watching your parents act like two teenagers gives the young mind a very strong idea of what ‘perfect’ love is like. Your first love will very often fit into this idea of the high school sweethearts who seem like they are made for each other.
This love will fit into what you always imagined ‘love’ to be, and will fulfill many of your expectations. You will think that love is forever, but in time when you get older it will break down as you realize that this love is fitting in with others expectations and not your own.
The second person you fall in love with will be the most painful.
As you try to get away from the previous idea you had of love, you will choose someone who you feel will fulfill your now ‘grown-up’ needs. The relationship will be full of drama and will leave you feeling on cloud nine when it works, but heartbroken when it fails. Ultimately this person will not be right for you, no matter how many times you try to make it work.
The third love will take you by surprise, and will at last, be the right one.
They might seem like the last person on earth you would imagine falling for, but this is what makes it right. They will be totally different from the first two and will make you feel whole.
H/T Daily Occupation